Choosing Happiness

The two readings I most enjoyed from this week are the Formula For Success by Thomas S. Monson and Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness. As a guy that makes mistakes often, when President Monson stated that "This is a time when we cannot afford not to be engaged in an earnest search for truth." I wholeheartedly agreed. A mistake that I would never want to occur is having my family think that I have any priorities before them. They are my number one support and motivation. In the Life and Liberty reading, it shows that statistics prove that our average amount of happiness is inherited, and as a father, it is my sole duty to my family and to God to make sure that my wife and children have that joy. Going throughout my life, I've encountered some parents and spouses that think that they can simply buy the affection of their children and or spouse. Another statistic proves that you cannot buy happiness. When we are in the act of service, we are able to find the most fulfillment in our callings and in our pursuit of happiness. Contrary to popular belief, those without money just may be happier than those who are dependent upon it. In my life, money to me is only a necessity for the security of my family. If I have sufficient funds to provide shelter, comfort, food, education, and with enough leftover to share, then that is all I need. It's not money that buys the memories, it's the people that you surround yourself with that ultimately create that fulfillment. If you want happiness, then you have to be willing to make sacrifice. As a joke, sometimes I'll say, "Eh, I'll have enough time for family in the eternities." Of course I don't really mean this, but it is saddening to me to remember that there are people out there, sacrificing the wrong thing every day. Not to say that my perspective is absolute truth and should be followed by everyone, but I know it to be true to me and thanks to the gospel, I continue to learn how to best live my life. Again, this week I'd like to end with a quote that was found in Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness. "The question is, how many moments do you intend to waste? Choose life. Choose it now."

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